#Happy is a four letter word.

 
The three types of misery are the misery of suffering, the misery of change, and persuasive misery.
— Dalai Lama

Gratitude turns what we have into enough.

Happy people find a way to live with their problems; miserable people let their problems stop them from living. #TrueStory

The synonym of misery is unhappiness.

You know what's mind blowing?

Misery. Miserable people. People who choose misery over contentment. People who choose misery over gratitude, over thankfulness. Have you ever noticed how miserable people do not enjoy nor like happy people aka Joyful people? Basically anyone with a smile on their face or pep in their step. Sigh. It's as if "Happy" has become a four letter word.

Let's just call the kettle black shall we?

It seems like there's a ton more miserable people in the world, than happy peeps. Maybe it's just because I'm awake. Noticing, actually paying attention. Cue "The Matrix" smile. So many people don't want to be unplugged from the pity-party system. Meaning, they aren't ready to choose happy. It's much easier to be miserable. To pine for the things you're lacking rather than be thankful for the blessings, thankful for the lessons.  It's much easier to wallow in self pity and point fingers. It's truly hard taking ownership over one's life. The roller-coaster of life seems to be the norm. What people don't realize is it is a choice to ride the roller-coaster. Why not relish in this remarkable ride of life. (a statement on purpose) Enjoy each day of your extraordinary, ordinary life.

The term Misery loves company is a misnomer. Misery actually Needs company. Miserable people need to justify their misery. They will try to make you as miserable as they are. If you surround yourself with Drama, Gossip, & Fools, you may want to consider that you will more than likely become one of them.

Walk away. In fact, how about you run away darlin. Fast.  You must. #Roar

We've all been there girl. Getting sucked into the pity party, the gossip train, the negative bashing, & heaven forbid the fake facade of life. The edits, the filters, the pretending & pining. Ugh.

Have you ever noticed how a miserable person can burn a hole through your soul with their stare and glare. It's as if your smile just stabbed them, and you've left them for dead. I've found if I glare back, appear just as miserable as they are, I'm actually treated better. Say what? Seriously, it's as if I shot them the misery gang sign, and now I'm in the inner circle. weird.

When you are chipper going through Life, the glares & stares can be unruly.      You go through life miserable & mean, you're in like flynn. Right of passage. Misery wins. Hell no, not again.

Grace wins.

Compassion wins.

Gratitude wins.

It is not happy people who are thankful; it's thankful people who are happy.

Let's put the extra into ordinary sistas.

Let's not invite the drama, the bullshit, the misery, from 2015, to join us in 2016.

We are going to ring in this new year with swag and class, straightening our Tiaras ready to kick some booty. wink. #CrowdRoars

Love your Life.  Live your Dream.  Be Amazing.

Love. Live. Be.

giggle.

jeN

 

 

 
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